Settings → Family gives you a private calendar link. Subscribe to it from your phone's calendar app and events appear alongside everything else in your life.
- Copy the link from Settings.
- iPhone: Settings → Calendar → Accounts → Add Account → Other → Add Subscribed Calendar.
- Google Calendar: Other calendars → From URL.
- Android: subscribe in Google Calendar on the web; it syncs to the phone.
It's read-only
The subscription shows events; it doesn't let you add them. Phone calendars refresh on their own schedule — usually within a few hours, not instantly — so check the app if something looks missing.
Anyone with that link can see your family's events. Treat it like a password, and if you ever share it by accident, ask support to reissue it.