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Create your account, confirm your email and connect with your co-parent.
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Messages
Writing on the record, attachments, tone help and finding old messages.
7 articles
Calendar and schedules
Events, repeating entries, custody schedules and syncing to your phone.
6 articles
Handoffs
Changeovers, check-ins and an honest record of who was where, when.
3 articles
Calls
Audio and video without sharing your phone number, plus recording and transcripts.
5 articles
Expenses
Shared costs, receipts, reimbursements and the yearly total.
4 articles
Children
The details both homes need, and sharing everyday photos.
2 articles
Records and exports
Your family record, verified exports and how anyone can check one.
5 articles
Your account
Password, notifications, email address, time zone and closing your account.
4 articles
Plans and billing
What each plan includes, who pays, renewals and payment problems.
5 articles
Phone apps
The iPhone and Android apps, notifications and offline behaviour.
3 articles
Safety and privacy
Who can see what, how your data is protected, and where to get help.
4 articles
Most read
- Inviting your co-parentHow to send the invite, what it costs them, and how long the link lasts.
- Confirming your email addressWhy the app asks you to confirm before you can use it, and what to do if the email hasn't arrived.
- Why messages can't be edited or deletedThe one rule that makes the record worth anything.
- Creating a verified exportA copy of your record that anyone can check for themselves.
- Who pays, and what your co-parent seesOne subscription covers the family — whoever sets it up.
- A call won't connectWhat to try, in the order worth trying it.
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