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What your co-parent can and can't see

Everything shared, everything private, and the one thing neither of you can do.

Shared with your co-parent

  • Messages, and whether you've read theirs
  • Calendar events, the custody schedule and handoffs
  • Expenses, receipts and reimbursement requests
  • Children's information
  • Photos you post to Moments
  • Calls you make, and recordings when recording is on

Never shared

  • Your password
  • Your notification settings
  • Drafts you haven't sent
  • Your tone check results — a tone check happens before you send and only you see it
  • Whether you're currently signed in, or where you are (outside a check-in you choose to make)

Neither of you can

Edit or delete a message, an expense or a record after it's written. That's the point of the record: both of you can rely on it because neither of you can rewrite it.

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