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What we can see, and what we do with it

An honest answer about your data.

We can technically read the contents of your family's data, in the sense that any service running a database can. We don't, other than when you ask us to help with something specific.

What we don't do

  • We don't sell your data, and we don't run ads.
  • We don't share your records with your co-parent's attorney, or anyone else, unless legally compelled.
  • We don't read messages to train anything.

AI features

The tone check, Message Shield, receipt scanning and transcripts send the relevant text or file to a model provider to do their work. Those requests ask the provider not to retain the data. If you'd rather none of that happened, stay on Free or Family — those features are Family Pro only.

Our privacy policy is the full version.

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